The Quest to learn about Men and Women

There are new findings and discovery I learn about men and women. One day I decided to go on a quest, a search to find out answers .I started my journey by asking people, especially my close friends, what are some of their views of men and women. My first stop, I approached one of my girl friends ,who by the way is still single, and asked her what are some of your views about men, and she replied “You Know Ram, Most Men only have two only faults. The first one is everything that they say and the second, everything that they do”. Ouch. Another Beautician friend of mine described men as being just like mascara; they would all run at the first sign of emotion. Sometimes I feel like sharing my opinion that women must learn to understand that there is a shift going on, the sensitive men of the 21st century, we too have emotions and feelings.
Still on the quest, as Napoleon Hill says that thought become things, a book manifested before me as I was cleaning my room. The title of the book is “Why Men Can Only Do One Thing at a Time and Women Never Stop Talking” by Allan+Barbara Pease. In that book, I flipped to a page that revealed women defining their own self-worth by the quality of their relationships. “If a woman is unhappy in her relationships, she can’t concentrate on her work.” On the next page it was men defining themselves about their work and accomplishments. “If a man is unhappy at work he can’t focus on his relationships.” I realized a great discovery. Women are all about feeling and auditory and seek romance and touch. Men are more visual and want sex. Men have two heads and they try their level best to maximize and optimize its usage.
What we can all learn from body language with regards to men and women. When men want to lie, there would be clear and obvious signs emitting from their body language. However, women on the other hand prefer to look busy as they lie. A friend of mine once said that women would lie about anything, just to stay in practice.
Some thing I learned from a wise friend, when you give a woman an inch, she would think that she is a ruler and no two women are alike. In fact no one woman is alike. He shared with me and spoke of the power of three. There are three types of women; they are the intelligent ones, the beautiful ones and the majority. A wise female friend said that men like smart people because of the fact that opposite attracts.
The more I learn about men and women, the less I want to carry on my quest. I have come to a conclusion and Live by this song “Let it be, let it be.” Wishing all a happy Valentine’s Day.